Saving a Relationship - Arguing |
You know, I can’t think of one single situation that has ever gotten resolved by
arguing! Not one! What are you really doing when you argue with your partner?
Aren’t you just trying to prove that your right? Well, there’s an old saying that
goes “being right and being happy don’t always go together!” So do you want to
be right, or do you want to be happy? No one wants to stay in a relationship with
someone that argues and disagrees with them all the time! People want to stay
with a partner that is happy, pleasant, and is on their side. Therefore, if you
absolutely have to prove that your right, while you’re at it draw up the divorce
settlement papers, or be prepared to hear its over! You see, arguing, complaining,
and criticizing your partner is the quickest way to destroy your relationship. You
can’t change him, only he can change himself. The truth of the matter is that he
won’t change and your relationship won’t change until you’re ready to take a
good hard look at what you’ve done to undermine the relationship!
Best wishes,
David Roppo
Relationship Coach
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