Saving a Relationship - Lack of Intimacy |
Has the passion and intimacy disappeared from your relationship? Has your
partner completely withdrawn, or has intimacy become more of a chore than a
passion for him? Have you lost interest in your partner or the attraction that you
once had? Maybe intimacy has always been difficult for you or your partner, but
recently it has seemed to progressively worsen. Issues of intimacy are usually
caused by one of the three following criteria;
1. Physical appearance suffering because of low self esteem
2. Emotional needs are going unmet
3. Underlying self limiting beliefs are preventing a close intimate
relationship
Physical Appearance Suffering at the Hands of Low Self Esteem
Have you been suffering from a low self esteem? Has this created a lack of interest
in taking care of your self? Have you gained a considerable amount of weight?
Have you failed to eat a nutritious diet and to exercise on a regular basis? It is very
difficult to take care of the things that are most important if you don’t love your self
100%. And, what you may not realize is that you must first love yourself before you
can love anyone else! You see, physical attraction is part of intimacy, but it goes
much deeper than that. If you are suffering from low self esteem and have let your
appearance slip, not only are you missing the physical attraction, but you are also
failing to meet your partner’s emotional needs as well! He wants a confident
partner, one that walks with Feminine Grace! Therefore, before you can even think
about attracting him back, you must learn how to walk with feminine grace. This
will take a bit of self discovery in uncovering the culprits responsible for your low
self esteem.
Unmet emotional needs
What emotional needs have gone unmet in your relationship? You can not expect to
have a great intimate relationship with your partner when there are needs that are
being ignored and unfulfilled. Often these needs are emotional and have very little to
do with sexual fulfillment. Sexual fulfillment is usually a result of first satisfying ones
emotional needs. Unfortunately, your intimate relationship will always bear the brunt
of everything else that is failing in the relationship. If you want to reconnect with
your partner, don’t look to complain about or fix the intimacy issue, search for the
emotional needs that have been left out in the cold! Have you made your partner feel
like a man? Have you shown him a confident woman that can make her dreams come
true, express love unconditionally, and gracefully articulate her needs?
Self Limiting Beliefs
Both men and women have difficulties with intimacy when there is a hidden
underlying self limiting belief that prevents them from establishing a close bond, or a
long lasting relationship. These beliefs generally stem from the family dysfunctions
of physical or sexual abuse, alcoholic parents or parental abandonment! Have either
you or your partner endured any of these dysfunctions? Working through the
Relationship Rehab for Women 6-Step E-System will help you uncover and confront the demons
that are standing in the way of your intimate relationship!
For more information on "The Relationship Rehab for Women E-system" click on the link below.
Relationship Rehab for women E-System
Best wishes,
David Roppo
Relationship Coach
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