Saving a Relationship - Get him to Propose |
Have you been trying to get your partner to make a commitment? Have you run into a brick wall over and over again?
Whether your goal is marriage, a long term relationship, or winning your partner back after separation, there is a
common thread at the core of this dilemma! And, your success is entirely dependent upon gaining a complete
understanding of that denominator.
First, let me say, that a partner's unwillingness to commit usually has absolutely nothing to do with the commitment
itself or the fear that many people associate with it. Now, there are always exceptions to a rule, and occasionally a
man may have a fear of commitment that is rooted in his own insecurities. However, this is not the case the majority
of the time. But, wouldn't you rather know that prior to pressuring him into marriage?
Ok! So, let's get back to the real reason most people don't commit. Ponder this for a moment; if I proposed the
following to you, would you hesitate or would you commit; if you say yes in the next 10 minutes by signing on the
dotted line, you can have all the love, happiness and wealth that you want - no strings attached! Well, would you?
For most people, the answer would be yes! So, you see, it has very little to do with the commitment itself but
moreover what you're committing to? So, step back and ask yourself a question; would I commit to myself right now?
The bottom line is this, you haven't given your partner a reason to commit, and until you do, nothing will change.
If you really want to seal the deal, you've got to change yourself and learn how to harness the power of Feminine
Grace. Trust me! If you can convince him that a life of happiness, love and companionship is the reward for signing
on the dotted line, he'll pick up the pen faster than you can bat your eyelashes. At the end of the day, no one wants
to commit to someone who is controlling, clingy, needy, smothering, jealous, mistrusting or argumentative! You see, at
very minimum, if you make some changes on your side of the equation and he still doesn't commit, you'll have uncovered
the fact that his own insecurities are the problem. And moreover, you'll have saved yourself from going through a
painful divorce down the road - and will have become a better person to boot. Either way it's a win- win for you.
Ok! So here's what you need to do:
Examine you fears and insecurities. How has your behavior contributed to your partner's apprehension towards
commitment? Uncover and confront your fears and insecurities by adopting principles and establishing boundaries.
Embrace self-love and increase your self-esteem. Instead of feeling victimized, choose to learn from the situation and
become a stronger and more confident woman.
Discover your personal identity and unlock your feminine power by embarking on a journey of self-reflection.
The bottom line is this; if you want him to make a commitment you're going to have to attract it from him!
For an exact step by step plan to save a relationship and awaken Feminine Grace, subscribe to my free e-guide above!
Best wishes,
David Roppo
Relationship Coach
724-203-4575
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