Saving a Relationship - Withdrawal |
People withdraw in a relationship for one of the two following reasons;
1. The inability to tolerate their partners behavior
Nothing will push your partner away faster than arguing, criticizing, and
complaining! Why would they want to be around someone that disagrees with
them, criticizes them, and complains about the things that they do? The answer is
they don’t, so they withdraw! Remember, you can’t change them, only they can
change themselves. So what’s the point of arguing with them? You’re destroying
your relationship!!!!!!! Therefore, if you would like to begin to attract your
partner back stop that behavior immediately! subscribe to my free E-guide to learn how to draft a
statement of agreement, and begin a new pattern that will welcome your partner
back!
2. Their emotional needs are going unmet
Both partners in a relationship have emotional needs, and if they go unmet it often
results in one of the partners withdrawing. They get to a point in the relationship
when they are tired of trying to get their partner to realize what their needs are, so
they often retreat and keep to themselves. To attract him back you must ascertain
why he feels the way that he does, and which needs have gone unmet. Once again,
you can’t tell him you must show him! You see, saving a relationship always
comes down to self reflection, and changing your side of the equation!
Best wishes,
David Roppo
Relationship Coach
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